What is Love and Marriage?

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?" The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big padi, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realize that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted !!!! So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.

"The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."



Believe...
And as you believe,
You will find
Reaching gets easier,
Setbacks get
More manageable,
Life becomes
More meaningful.


*Self Note: Do you think this is true?? Or shall it be how much of it do you think it's true? LOVE, you keep searching for a better one, never satisfied with the current and might miss the chance of marring the best out of all relationship...
The Truth is everyone is Greedy. Greed is one of the sins haha... But "Will anyone be satisfied? Will they ever be good enough?
Marriage might be with someone whom you think you're comfortable with. Someone who you think "Well being with her is not that bad. I can live with her." They don't have to be perfect. They don't have to match all of your expectations. Maybe you just have to think that "hey I can live with her flaws, I can accept them."
Well wat i can say is I'm not picky in my marriage, as long as I think I can live with the guy and the guy can live with my stubborness haha... he can accept this flaw of mine, I can accept his too.
Cheers people, Hope you find Love or marriage soon hahahaa....